It is as difficult as you want it to be.

You already have all of your answers.

They all work.

None of them work.

Just let go.....

And when you let go, no proof is needed.

It is difficult as long as the individual believes that there is a destination.

Remember, the idea is growth.

In a system of duality the pendulum cannot stay suspended at one end of its swing.

It can however, come to a near rest by being equally aware of the existence and consequence of both sides of the swing.

This would be the natural consequence of the "growth" in question.

But swing, it must, for without it there is no expansion or existence.

We make it difficult because part of our being is unwilling to let go of old conditioning even though it may not be serving us anymore - there is an element of comfort in what's familiar.

*I don't think that there is "ONE" way to achieve all that we want or that there's "ONE" spiritual program that works for everyone.

We're all individual parts of the same Oneness and because of that idividuality what works for each of us will be different, because although our journeys may be similar, they are all unique. So, it is up to each one of us to discern what works for us. What resonates with each of us may be different - none right or wrong,only what is needed at the moment.

Because we are always growing and expanding, different things will work at different times along the journey.

As for offering proof, I think "being the change" that Gandhi so rightly referred to is the only proof needed.