From one dude to another. You are not "just a dude". dude-ism is not an easily attained level of life. When one has come to the realization that one is dude. Think about it you are different yet the same as others, you have coolness yet are empathetic. We are not quite Kahunas but without dudes there are no kahunas.
As far as healing goes;Are you a healer? Are you willing to saddle that title and claim that responsibility? It is a serious thing and would take a devotion to set your path on. But if it really feels right then go for it. no excuses
here is a little book I found the other day Wake Up and Live!by Dorothea Brand give it a read
Edit: So I go away and do things and I comeback to my email and the letter that is open is the daily quote from A-H

As you practice your more positive, better-feeling story, in time your pleasure will become the dominant vibration within you, and then as you couple your pleasure with your means of earning, the two will blend perfectly and enhance each other.

There is no better way to earn money than to do the things that you love to do. Money can flow into your experience through endless avenues. It is not the choice of the craft that limits the money that flows—but only your attitude toward money.

--- Abraham

Excerpted from the book "Money and the Law of Attraction: Learning to Attract Health, Wealth and Happiness" # 352

peace

Tom, I don't believe in Oracle or Tarot Cards.

But I do believe in the simple but powerful logic that has become known as: The Power of Attraction.

I would recommend that you talk with a counselor or confiding friend about looking into starting another business.

I feel that you should not simply quit what you have... Instead plan to make a gradual transition from the business you have -- to one that suits you better and makes you a happier person.

Hi Tom,

I think that through the Angel cards you recieved wonderful confirmation about your life and desires at the present moment. The Universe wants to see you realize your ideal life and you are on the same card with the Universe. However, I think it's important to understand that you are prosperity, and you are healed. It may be easier said than done, but Trust in the process of life. The magic of manifestation is in your trust and your smile. You've expressed to us that you want to sell your carpet business. Well, do it, but I think the other big piece to the puzzle is, What do you want to do instead of carpets? and start doing that as well. Light and Love

Tom, I don't really quite get the point of your question. Honestly speaking the first time I read it, I couldn't figure out whether you were talking from a place of negative emotion or positive emotion.. so I decided to wait for a while and from the other replies, I guess it's from a negative place :)

It just seems to me like you were having a bad day, nothing more :)

God gave us all a good brain to use the tools of both our right and left brain. Imagine getting a college degree and learning everything there is to know about something then flipping a coin or picking a card to chose what to do. That is the same for life Tom you shouldn't let "outside mystical" influences decide for you what to do. Give your right brain all the facts from your left brain and ask it to work on this for you, you will have your answer. What do you like to do most on Friday nights? There are a million ways to make money, see if what you enjoy doing most could bring you money.

I agree with Prophet, Tom. I would rather you trusted your intuition and your gut (The Universe will tell you, Tom..you do NOT need cards!!!) than the cards...From my point of view, the cards aligned with what you already were feeling- they just confirmed it. These cards are very popular now, but most people do not realize that they pull from the Dark Energy rather than from the Light. Angels or Tarot...it's all the same thing...it is called Divination, and Divination is from Dark Energy...Worldly and not Godly, in other words. It is like Astrology. Some people just live for this stuff...I would rather ask God and use the LOA to get answers, Tom.

If you are unhappy with your business, then do what The Universe (I call this God) is telling you to do through your right brain. But slowly, as Prophet says. Get advice. I am a healer, have healed many people, but have not made a lot of money at it at all. I just do not feel comfortable asking for money doing something that I feel God is calling me to do. That is why I am getting my degree in Divinity...so I can get a Pastoral JOB and thus do God's work, doing whatever He wants, without strings and in His Name.

Blessings,

Jai