Hmmm...you seem to be effectively asking how to deal with being too popular...we'll probably have people posting questions about how to deal with having too much money next :)

Clearly you are not in a position where you can help everyone in your reality because otherwise you wouldn't be asking the question.

So there will be a point where you feel good about helping people with their personal issues and then a point where it now feels bad to help others with their personal issues. That emotional "tipping point" is what you have to watch out for.

You say "I cannot be selfish enough to ignore their efforts for seeking attention/ request for support" but if you follow that philosophy you are then effectively saying, because you are overriding your own bad feeling, that you are ignoring your own needs for support and attention from within yourself.

And if you don't give yourself support and attention when you want it, you will eventually have nothing to offer anyone else anyway.

As hard as it may be to hear, there does come a time when dealing with lots of people that you have to learn to say "No" to others (in a loving way) in order to preserve your connection to yourself.

I'm not saying this is an easy attitude to cultivate because the desire to be of service to others is strong with many of the people who participate in websites like IQ but there needs to a balance.

What I've found that makes it easier is a realization that you are not responsible for the lives of others. Despite appearances to the contrary, you'll find that if you don't give others the attention they want from you, it won't stop them getting what they want because you are not the channel by which it comes anyway.

And also that, very often, any support you offer to another will only provide temporary relief because you cannot vibrate for another person. All that happens if you keep on providing endless support is that you create a dependency from them onto you. At some point, they need to change within themselves.

You'll know when a dependency is setting in because you will no longer feel good about helping them.

Sometimes you may find that people will dislike you because you refuse to give them the support they expect (or even demand) from you and then you'll find yourself having to deal with issues regarding "approval of others"...but even that's not a bad thing. In my view, the sooner you discard the need to have "approval of others", the better :)

The bottom line is that if you are not helping someone from a place of "open connection" within yourself, you have become part of the problem and not part of the solution.