Yes it seems that your friends that help but then act like you are stupid feel that in their vision of the world everyone knows what they know. This view is in error, there are people that know things these friends don't know.

It should be a joy helping you, not a annoyance. I enjoy helping and never feel others are below me and why don't they know this stuff?

There is a lot I don't know that most people do know, there is a lot I know that most don't. We are all unique in this way, the same could be said of anyone.

The joy is in sharing so that we all benefit, it should be a joy sharing and being shared with.

I this world many will want to share and to show you thing they know. and there is no problem there. some assume that you should know something some will not assume and share it with you any way. if you did not know you will say he teach me stuff that I did not know. if you know it you will say I know that stuff, why is he wanting to be my teacher? and if you know more then what the person is showing you, you will be able to know what is and what is not and see the level the person as reached. and some time some people are not ready to understand or know the truth about something then it is better to let them grow until they are ready. love them as your self. we are all similar but there is difference between us. should we stop loving or helping each other because of or difference? and fall in the judging of each other. if you judge someone he will do the same to you. even what some one appreciate of you might not be the same for you. they could appreciate you for your money,your material stuff your social standing in this world. money material stuff social standing does not mean much you could have all this and not have it the next day will they appreciate you as much the next day? and when it happens to them will they have learn their lesson and grow from the experience and change their value?

no one in this world can be physically at two place at the same time and even if he does is best to make more then one person happy by serving them best they will complain: why is this not done, you could have done more, you could have done this or that, you know better then this, why are you not on time, etc..... do those person really appreciate you? they make assumption and pass judgment on you yet none of them are in your shoe. when the same thing will happen to them what will they say to justify them self? how will they justify that they did the same to someone else? tell the truth about something but do not try to justify the unjustifiable, who is just in this world? is it the one that complain and judge other with out knowing the truth? if he would have been just he would not have done to other what he would not have want done to himself. it is ok let them complain for the time being they do not know better and still need to grow eventually they will become just to them self and other when they awake.

If needed when the storm is passing go in the desert, find a place to rest before you become a carcass.

happy is the man who comes to himself and awakens.

So whatever you believe about these things keep between yourself and God. Blessed is the one who does not condemn himself by what he approves.

Let there be light, be the light that you can be, experience and enjoy.