When people imply they've found something in their lives that violates the Law of Attraction, I usually like it when they "ramble" a bit about the "Law-Breaking" topic :)

And that's because when people talk freely out-loud about a subject (especially to someone else), their vibrational setpoint on the subject often reveals itself quite clearly - certainly to the other person at least. Most of the time we desensitize ourselves to our habitual inner self-talk so we grow numb to our true default thoughts about a subject. We become blind to our own vibration.

In your question, you've kindly done a bit of out-loud "rambling" to us about the subject of your "belly fat". So, if you don't mind, I'll list below for you a few of the statements that you believe to be true right now about yourself in relation to that.

Perhaps you might see a correlation between what you are thinking/affirming habitually (i.e. believing) about your "belly fat" and what's happening physically regarding it :)

• I still haven't been able to get rid of it
• I became very fat due to stress and because I didn't know how to handle it
• But I still have a lot of belly fat
• People don't think I'm fat at all with my clothes on, but it'd be a different story if I took my shirt off...
• My life in general is on a nice, gentle upward curve in every sense. But I haven't got rid of the belly
• if you are resisting less and less, you'd get to your natural weight. That's hasn't worked for me so far

Justifying to yourself and others why things are the way they are in your life is an excellent method for preventing change in your life :) ...because in doing so you are affirming even more reasons to yourself (and others) why your current reality must be "true" and hence you are locking yourself further into that "truth".

If you're still not convinced about all this then get yourself some speech transcribing software and record yourself speaking freely for, say, ten minutes on the subject of your "belly fat". If you're then feeling brave enough, paste the transcription here...and I'm pretty sure you'll have all the evidence you need of where your vibrational setpoint currently resides on this subject :)

Note that it is irrelevant how this physical situation got started initially, the only thing that matters are your dominant thoughts Right Now about the subject...because those thoughts are what the Law of Attraction is responding to and hence those thoughts keep re-creating your physical reality the way that it currently is.

I have noticed, in myself, that I am quite good at pretending to feel much better and more cheerful than I actually feel! Abraham has sometimes talked about how humans will often insist that they feel "hope", when they are actually vibrating "doubt". Or we will say - I want to be more slender! I am definitely totally focused on my slender new self! But really, we spend a lot of our vibrational airtime thinking about how much we hate being fat and vibrating "I'm fat and I hate it" instead of gleefully appreciating how awesome our body-in-becoming is (or whatever your particular pet issue is.)

I'm noticing in myself right now that as I climb the emotional scale further out of the lower vibes I was pretending I wasn't in (heh), my body is feeling better and better and little discomforts are resolving, and I am able to like and appreciate my body more. And I notice that I am spending a lot longer than I imagined in a phase where I am not in the perfect body yet, but I just feel better and more neutral about the body I currently have.

And I've noticed, in this kind of intermediary phase where you're vibrating (at least a chunk of the time) in your "new, preferred reality", but your "external reality" still reflects your old way of thinking and vibrating, that it's still very easy for me to get focused on the current external reality of Topic X, rather than remaining focused on my "internal reality", my preferred reality on that topic. And that swing of focus, from "I'm really starting to feel excited about this vision of my physical self I'm crafting" to "Oh... but I just looked in the mirror, and there's a big gap between how I currently look and how I currently, in my imagination, look" can (in my experience) drop your vibration quite a bit if you don't realize what's happening, and turn you back the other vibrational direction.

(Example, I think I'm currently on a sort of tipping point, because (does this make me sound crazy? if I can't admit it here...) when I am feeling good and high-vibing and stable, I look one way to myself in the mirror, and when I'm low, I look another way. I don't mean in vague, hazy ways. I mean, when I feel good, I look distinctly one way to myself in the mirror. When I feel less good, I look a different way, and then it's easy for me to grab that "reality" as evidence of something. But it's evidence of nothing but your old vibes. It can be hard - but helpful - to remember that.)

Great advice from all who posted before. There may be something else that you want at a deeper level i.e. to like your body regardless of the social norms of "fitness". It might be a good start. I've noticed that a distinct dislike or focus on it (: resistance :) will keep the fat.