The only time a good match in a job and how you are feeling about that job comes is when you are creating value. I was just watching a new video Choice Point. In it is shows how many people were stuck feeling like failures even the successful ones felt empty until they decided to change to what they really felt made a difference to others. When they decided to make a difference to humanity to better humanity they felt like they couldn't wait to work for the day! Sir Richard Branson was even in this new video, talking about how he originally was a failure with no place to go but up. Paul Mason (Shampoo guy) is in that video with a very similar story. There was even a kid in that video that produces organic food to be sold because he decided to do some research on what was in the foods that most kids eat and drink, he was appalled at his findings and decided to make a difference! There was a women that was making a lot of money at her job but felt like she didn't like herself and felt like "Is this all there is to life, make as much money as you can before you die?" She quit her high paying job to open a Spiritual Retreat that has been helping very many people ever since and she wakes up feeling like she can't wait to get to work today every day!

So it all comes down to are we creating value or just producing value for someone else to fulfill his dream or even just so he can make as much money as he can before he dies?

It is not easy (I admit that myself), finding what you feel really matters and makes a difference. I know I feel it with my karate but on such a small scale it is only a hobby that doesn't make much money for anything. All the people in that video went big time, affecting hundreds of thousands of people.

I was watching a video interview of Jefferson and Kelly Moore and his wife and he said when he read the book, "A dinner with a Perfect stranger" He felt strongly he had to make that into a movie. He didn't know what he was doing, he looked for people to fund it and producers and he filmed it "The Perfect Stranger" and put it out there. He wasn't expecting what he saw next, people were buying it and the meter was spinning like an odometer quickly adding up all the people buying the movie!

So when we feel what we are doing is making a difference we feel good about that. Also if we feel we have to do something and feel so good about the thought of doing it to make a difference it seems everything will fall into place to make that happen.