There is also too much resistance in manifesting sexual desires. Society has conditioned most of us to believe that pre-marital sex is wrong, etc. E.g a young teenage boy might think of seeing playboy bunnies but when someone tells him that they just saw one out on the streets, the first thought that comes to his mind would be "how could that actually possible?" Or if a young couple both feels that having sex in a relationship is nothing wrong, but they would still be worried about how their parents or friends would think if they caught them in the act, etc. You get the idea..

The LOA is quite at work when men get their sexual appetite satisfied by playboy magazine rather than a living woman. Sexual thoughts satisfied in this manner don't lead to attracting a willing female, but rather into empowering the magazine. Thanks and Blessings, namaste

Good question.

As someone who has spent much of his life studying playboy type magazines, and pornography in general, i feel somewhat qualified to answer this one.

Now focusing attention on nubile women obviously doesnt always mean that were fighting our way thru throngs of attrative blonds and brunettes. Im quite sure if concentrating my attention on gorgeous naked women meant that i attracted them i would doubtless have bedded a great many more women than i actually had. And they would also doubtless have been spectacularly good looking too.

I think that for much of my life a looked at these women for sexual gratification BUT more importantly looked at them with a "core belief" that i wouldnt have a hope in hell of actually attracting and maintaining a relationship with such a beautifull type of woman.

There was always a deep belief that this type of female would only ever be enjoyed by myself ,on paper and in the confines of my own bedroom. And never "in the flesh"

I think focus and concentation alone wont ever manifest anything as quickley as a deep seated core belief that a woman is "already there" and that meeting her is an absolute given.

The laws work the same for a blond or a bugatti. Sex or Success, its all the same. We aften look at a beautifull object and think " if only", this holds the object or situation in a holding pattern or life track that we wont ever rendevouz with. But when we look at the object and think "its mine" we see a manifestation.

To recap, just thinking "about" something wont make it magically appear.