You don't need him, or any of his gifts, to feel good about yourself. Let him go back to his ex. They deserve each other. And you deserve better.

When you accept that, and know it in your heart that you don't need anyone else to be complete, you will begin to attract friends (and eventually a life partner) that will respect you and love you, and treat you like the wonderful person you actually are, instead of someone who just wants to play shallow games.

Don't be a part of the problem. Don't be playing these games yourself. Decide who you are and what kind of life you want. My guess is that you want someone in your life who is loving, dependable and respectful. Someone who cherishes you. But you have to be that person first, and the way to do that is to stop being clingy and dependent, and begin standing on your own two feet.

If you love something, set if free, if it comes back it is meant to be.

You have to realize that the Universe is helping you by showing you the true colours of this person and letting you know that he is not right for you. You should be thankful that even if you may not love yourself the Universe loves you. Suppose if you were married to this person and had kids and then he left you, wouldnt that have been more hurtful and complicated? Forget about him, there is someone waiting out there who is right for you. LOA will not work where the Univerese knows it is wrong for you, LOA will attract love for you but if this person doesnt love you then how can it attract him in your life?

My best adivce to you, since I have been in these situations before, get him out of your system, cry, scream do whatever it takes and then start visualizing yourself in a loving relationship with someone who truly deserves you.

Seriously Yara, you need to start loving yourself, and taking better care of yourself! My mother once said that a woman should not love a man more than he loves her, and it is only then, can she have a real loving relationship with him. My mother was married for forty-nine years, and her husband died five months before their fiftieth Wedding Anniversary.

Vesuvius answer covered all the important facts that you need to consider, and I totally agree with his answer. So it is up to you to make the necessary changes in your life, and to move on with your life!

Most important, remember to love yourself first! Good Luck.

Yara, wake up! please wake up girl! Take a closer look at yourself! take a look in the mirror. You are a beautiful, wonderful, sensible girl. And No Man deserves the pain and suffering you're putting yourself through. You watch him by day and dream of him by night? Think of the different things that used to bring you joy before this entanglement and do it. Force yourself in the begining, pretend to enjoy it, until you re-remember why it gave you joy. If you can't handle seeing lover boy playing the office, then get transferred or quit. Get another position or better yet, stay in the office and give him the cold shoulder treatment he so rightly deserves. At night, before you fall asleep, tell yourself as you visualize him, I ask my higher self to deal with this from that level.

Thank you, namaste