Or am I attracting these doubts in the first place by paying attention to these thoughts? I have started to date someone new, who makes me very happy. We are in a long distance relationship, and at times I start to doubt if he will stick around. Then, I will start to feel a bit uneasy and question his commitment, and think that am feeling uneasy because something is wrong and I am getting signs. .. (I guess this goes back to me ignoring warning signals in the past and progressing into the relationship anyways).
My boyfriend makes the effort to stay in touch, cares about my needs and is usually around. I give him his space and am beginning to trust him. I have no complaints, on the other hand, I feel very appreciative of his presence in my life.
I am working on gaining control of my emotions, but can someone please clarify what’s going on?