Hi Jai, I have compassion for Wade as I've been in similar situations many times in my life.

Two realizations that helped me to move beyond that state-of-being are:

1) The understanding that we always get more of whatever we've focused upon. So the key is to focus upon more of the positive aspects and less on the negative aspects.

2) Stop. Look around you and ask yourself: what problem do I have right now, in this moment? Sure, your mind can come up with any number of possible negative future scenarios. However, if you can just relax enough to realize that, right now, while I'm sipping a coffee and reading this post - there really are no problems here!

And then, in this moment, you'll begin to feel better. And as you begin to feel better, you'll start to focus more on what's wanted and less on what's unwanted. If you keep this up, over time, you absolutely must start seeing a better reflection in your personal reality.

Wishing Wade and anyone else a more positive life experience ♥

Jaianniah,

When I think of Wade, I think of a strong, intelligent, self-directed and highly-spiritual man who is quite capable of taking care of himself. He has tremendous inner power and is an extremely deep and humble thinker - I've interacted with him many times over the past few years on IQ and that's what I sense of him.

And that's how I'll continue to think of him because that's who he REALLY is

...and in thinking of him that way then, in my reality, that's who he will always be. And that attitude helps creates the vibrational space for him to (re)expand into that, if he chooses to do so.

I understand that's not the way you are choosing to see him right now and I would suggest that if you can change your own perspective and see him as he really is you will do far more good than observing what you feel to be wrong and trying to battle it to the ground.

Of course, Wade has my best wishes - as do you - but changing how You view your current situation can have a huge effect also, and one that will help You as well.

As @Dollar Bill said so well in his comment to you... Whatever you focus on grows

Hi, Wade.. Rough time, I understand, and I'm sincerely sorry. You tie a knot and hang on, things are going to work out for you. Believe me, quote me. You know that the one thing that is certain is change. None of what you suffer from right now is permenant. You know that you are not alone. You know how very much you are loved. God, Wade, what wouldn't I give to be loved like Jai loves you? :) That's not said to placate you, I want to remind you that this is powerful stuff, and available to you right now to draw upon. So many here at IQ are pulling for you and looking forward to enjoying your success along with you. Your breakthrough exists now, it is already created and ready for you. Change is coming, you have created it yourself, there is no way for it not to come. Believe, and you will see.

Take comfort in all the love that is flowing to you, and give your poor mind a rest - I get the sense that maybe too much thinking is jamming up your works, there, friend. You will get past this, I know for sure, because I see enough of your spirit in reading years of you opinions, beliefs, and experiences to know you are no slouch, and this is only a season for you, and it will pass. You are learning things in this that you needed to know.

Remember that our own high-flying Stingray speaks of long, lonely periods of stumbling around in the dark. That man stumbles not at all now, and you will get there too.

Xoomaville has told us about his miseries and self-doubts suffered, and now he is asking for our thoughts on all of the wonderful opportunities he has.

I came to IQ in a self-imposed prison of lack, sickness, pain and loneliness. Brick by brick, you and all the others here are helping me tear it down. My life is forever changed. I have so much more than I did when I got here, more of every good thing, including money and much improved health. I have to be the newbiest newbie you guys have got, so ain't nothing special about me. Its the wisdom and the love and the practical lessons here in this place. Draw from it, Wade. Pull from all these years of collected wisdom - its priceless! Please take your time to really read all that Stingray posted here: http://www.inwardquest.com/questions/52874/a-rampage-of-appreciation-what-does-it-for-you.

"When you are able to maintain "inner silence" you are able to experience the relief upon your spirit and psyche as a result of being free from the burden of constant thought." - @The Traveller.

I was just copying that quote for myself when I saw Jai's question. I don't remember reading if you are meditating daily? It is the one piece of advice I can sincerely offer anyone stuck in anything. Seems to have tremendous unsticking power, among countless other wonders. :)

Finally, let me just say that I am with you. Jai let out a howl for help on your behalf and I take such requests very seriously. So my answer is yes, and I am in for the duration.

Friend, I will gladly sit here with you in spirit, inviting in all wise council, comfort, strength, healing, and opportunity for you and for Jai both.

Take comfort Wade, all is well.

Wade you are important to I Q. I always read your comments. Please get well soon. I will be praying for your recovery. And yes prayer does work. Blessings!!!

Thank you so much everyone! I need point out Jai needs your prayers right now. She is in the hospital to get stress tested for her heart. She may have had heart attacks even in the hospital.

She has been there all day yesterday and all night through. 7-5-12-7-6-12

I do not yet know if she will get out today or not or even what their tests show because she is waiting to do the tests.

She is in a lot of pain and is scared right now.

She needs a lot of prayers and good healing energy her way right now.

As for me, I am getting better slowly it may seem but I do notice improvement each day.

Thank you so much everyone from us both. :-)

Edit Update 7-13-12

I am listening to the Quantum Trilininal recording and the Superliminal Debt Free recording simultaneously equalized so that both recordings can be heard at about the same volume level. It is like listening to Super Duperliminal recording!!!

I am deeply enjoying these, it has been years since I listened to Debt Free and now I have the Quantum Trilminal Abundance recording. With the two combined WOW WEE!!!!

http://www.quantumtriliminalclub.com/fe/26723-prosperity-audio

http://www.deeptrancenow.com/news.htm

Enjoy and let the change over you come I am feeling happier and know God is taking care of me, everything is going to be cool. The pieces are falling into place already for me to know everything will be all right. God takes care of me and whether healing or finance both are blessings from God and one is not harder than the other. :-)

Jai and Wade, both of you guys, along with plenty of others, prayed for me twice when I made those public requests on IQ a few months ago, so there is no way I will ignore this cry for some gentle support at all :)

(By the way, your prayers worked I'm convinced, surely dont be surprised if you get some unexpected energy soon xx)

I'm sending all my love and support to both of you, Wade & Jai <3

Neither one of you are failures! You both are such beautiful, caring people. If you need a smile just think of all the love and wisdom that you've spread throughout IQ and how much it has helped the individuals who come here :) Very far from the word "failure". I've never thought anything but good of you both.

Take the opportunity to think of all the good things in life. Think of all the things your proud of and what you love about each other. We'll all be here backing you up and sending more love your way!:)

Dearest Jai and Wade,

You are both rocks of inspiration and love here at I.Q. and have helped and inspired many. You are both well loved so if you both find it difficult at this time to focus only on the positive than focus on the love all are sending you for that is real right now. Feel the love and surender to it and from that point try and focus on perfect end result.

Remember Wade this too shall pass and soon you will be better than you have ever been before. Please read Dollar Bills answer again for what he says there is the answer to your prayer.

On the practical side get yourself some digestive enzymes for they help with allergies. Also please read "The Healing Codes" by Dr. Alex Loyd for this could be your health salvation.

I will do distance Reiki with Angels tonight for both of you. I will also post on your and Wades facebook a prayer that you should both reed.

Love you both

Hey buddy sorry to hear that allergies are kickin your butt right now. But it's not the first time . Grace gave an answer to another question about talking to past Self to resolve issues,problems,and such. And in the whole all time is now way of seeing it there is a past healthy Wade and a future healthy Wade there NOW!! Ask them what works !
A thought that crossed my mind was get out to sea if you can ,salt air will Do you good ,and if you get on a boat get away from the pollen's. I know it does us well when we take the 3 hour long ferry from Sweden to Denmark.
So positive vibrations brother.
peace

I am also sending healing prayers Wade's way and I am asking the angels to plant a hedge of protection around him and you to keep you both from any further evil influences. Also, I don't know if Wade listens to subliminal recordings, but just today I got an email with a link to a FREE Quantum Tri-liminal prosperity recording with brainwave entrainment put together by world renowned Brainwave expert Morry Zelkowitch. Since I am more less in the same boat with you, financially, I intend on using it myself everyday also. And I also believe, what you focus on, expands, like Dollar Bill stated. I am still working on this and I am confident this recording will help me with this too. I just put it onto my mp3 player and intend to go to sleep with it tonight while it is playing on repeat. This is the link for the direct download, no email opt in required: http://www.quantumtriliminalclub.com/fe/26723-prosperity-audio Also, don't forget, GOD said in the Bible: "No weapon formed against you shall prosper, but whatever you put your hand to, SHALL prosper."

If we create our reality with our beliefs, then what you are experiencing NOW is a product of your beliefs. If you don't enjoy the conditions of life NOW, then to change what you experience, you must change your beliefs. You don't examine the beliefs you have NOW that are creating your reality, that won't change it, that will magnify it. You decide what you want instead and create statements that support that. Then do Two Hands Touching, then state your desired belief, then do THT again. Do this with your statements every day until it is cleared and you are bored with that one and move on to another. You can do several per day separately or in one session with THT between each statement.

For example if you are in debt, do THT, then you can say, "God is my banker," then do THT again. For your physical complaints, do THT, then say, "I am whole and perfect in the Divine Mind of God," then do THT again. Change up the statements so that they resonate with what you want. They won't necessarily feel comfortable to say because you don't believe it yet. When you do it with the THT it brings the statement into that sense of peace with you to help cement it faster.

You can do this several times per day. I would write them down, or come here, or go to my experiment page and read it from there. I read them so that I don't get tangled in remembering how to say it. Sometimes it feels like someone scraping their fingernails on the chalkboard when I first say a statement, but the next time, it is much easier after having done it with the THT. So it brings peace to otherwise uncomfortable feelings about the beliefs I want to have. The important thing is to do it every day until you don't need to any more and then move on to more. More will come as you clear each issue.

Any time you find yourself thinking thoughts that are counter to your peace, do the THT. Disturbing and unwelcome thoughts will come less and less and you will be present more and more.

Also, every night before you go to bed and every morning when you wake up, thank God for this beautiful day (even if you don't like the weather), and everything else that you have to be thankful for including but not limited to: your loving and beautiful Jai, your nice warm home, your nice cozy bed, your family, your friends, healthy food to eat, clean water to drink, clean air to breathe, the healthy body you have, etc... You can do THT before/after that too. Don't look for what is wrong, look for what is right.

Wade, I only see you as a successful person, in all aspects of life, getting better and better every day.

Hello Wade and Jai,

I just got back to IQ and I am sorry to hear you, Wade's, health issues and financial issues and Jai's health issues as well and glad it is not Jai heart! I differently have been there and seriously understand the money issue problem and health problems, lack of insurance, lack of work and money even if is is only a temporary situation it still hurts both physically and emotionally. I know of the only best course of actions is for me to pray to the Lord Jesus to shower his healing energies down upon the both of you all because all God has to do is speak the word and it is so for he has all power not some or a few and he has not lost any of his powers and he loves the both of you all. Draw on those healing powers of energies sent directly to the both of you and see the sickness being removed and replaced with healing energies to heal and rebuild what ever was being attacked by sickness. Now, Jesus will send his holy angels to stand guard and watch over and protect you and shield you both. They say of those that can read auras you are attack and wounded in your aura before it ever effects your physical bodies. I read about a man years ago in Florida that did psychic healing he would place your spirit in a spiritual play pen and work on it and than after he has it cleared and heal he would than work on your physical body. They said when you walk in his house you could feel the presence of God in it. But I lost his name and web site.
Your energies are probably drain Wade from helping others and not clearing your self of their energies and disease or sickness. You much now strengthen your self back up on the spiritual plan as well as the physical. Jai Jesus will heal you and remove what ever it is that is causing your pain. Finances Wade are kicking a lot of people right now but you will pull out of it as Jesus angels guide you to a more prosperous living and I am hoping that for me as well. Take care Wade and Jai! Oh, I have been gone a while glad to hear about Wade you and Jai Love!!!